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The "D" Word

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    Being single is tough. Well, I can say that because I am. I can't speak for everyone, but I can speak from what I've observed. And what I've observed is that dating is hard. That's right, the "D" word. I get so discourage that I don't even really want to hear that stinking word anymore.     But why? Why is it so hard and frustrating and confusing? And I'm not saying that I am an expert or anything, but maybe the things I've learned will help us all to simplify dating.     Where to start. Well how about with the first date. I think we all get it into our heads that the first date means something way more than it is. We think that there has to be a lot more before the first date, or "Hanging Out". Elderly people gasp and cringe at the word. Why? Because it's horrid. It's horrid in the way that we get comfortable "hanging out" instead of dating each other. We think that we have to be into this person romantically befo

Identity

In the Family: a Proclamation to the World, it states, " ALL HUMAN BEINGS —male and female—are created in the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or daughter of heavenly parents, and, as such, each has a divine nature and destiny. Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose." I believe this statement whole heartedly. God made us who and how we are for a reason. It is more rare than common that people mentally can't grasp who they are. Too often we attribute what people identify with being as just a mentally handicapped. But this is hardly ever the case. We are who we are and that is that. Watch this video and find out what some people's stance is on our understanding of identity: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xfO1veFs6Ho     Stand up for truth, not what is popular. 

Understanding Same-Sex Attraction

I believe in look at the facts, of understanding truth. This is highly controversial, of course. And everyone has a right to their own opinions, but, I think it's important to know the facts and be informed. This is my wish for those reading this post-is to inform. Before reading on, I highly recommend watching this video, which explains same sex attraction. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jJhyzqdzpnM     In this video, it describes that no one is born with same-sex attraction. There are possible factors that play into being homosexual and the video discusses some of these, such as: Wounded gender identity, bullying, father hunger, mother confusion,inappropriate touch, and pornography. The video interviews a couple of men who have overcome same-sex attractions with the help of therapy. They discuss feelings of depression. They feel unhappy with being homosexual and don't feel fulfilled, even after engaging in homosexual activity. They were able to reach out to therapists an